A question that often helps provide clarity: “Is this consistent with the person I want to be?”

When I wrestle with decisions or emotion I struggle with. Asking this question/its parent variant: “Is this consistent with the father I want to be?” clarifies the path forward immediately.

“Is this consistent with the quiet life I want to live?”

“Is this consistent with the business I want to build?”

“Is this consistent with the people I want to be around?”

When we change our questions, we change our life.

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