At some point you get to a phase in your life where you don’t need attention from many people to feel good about yourself.
It is not about arrogance but about understanding that exposing your deepest part of your soul should be reserved for a few close people who truly appreciate and value you.
Too much attention seeking maybe a symptom of an emotional internal imbalance, a lack of internal locus of control.
Exposing yourself to too many people is tantamount to sharing a big part of your heart, your soul.
Preserving your soul is precious.
It is okay to matter to a few people in your life, no need to be approved my majority in order to feel good about yourself.
You matter all by yourself, there is no need to be validated by others all the time before you feel special.