Perhaps the best thing about being the center of attention [and we need people to be the center of attention] is that you have what you need to be the center for connection.

Perhaps the biggest trap about being the center of attention [and we need people to be the center of attention] is that you have what you need to keep it all for yourself.

The first scenario can go on forever.

The second will be a lonely fizzle and a missed opportunity.

PS: Use your center of attention as a center for connecting.